Bipolar Disorder/Bipolar Sister

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Expert: Joyce A. Anthony - 7/7/2008


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My sister is 31 years old and is bipolar.  Even with medication and therapy she is getting more out of control with every new day.  Currently, my mom manages my sister's disability money because she spends like crazy and doesn't save money for her rent, food, etc.  Unfortunately, because my mom manages her money, she verbally attacks my mom on almost a daily basis.  My mom is 54 and is exhausted and overwhelmed by the violent attacks.  We are desperately trying to find someone or a group who could manage my sister's monthly bills for a relatively low cost.  I need to get these finances managed by someone else besides my mom because my sister's words and actions are killing her.  Can you advise?

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Hi C. Elliott:

Look in the phone book for a "base service" mental health unit.  They can direct you to the local mental health agency that may be able to provide a new payee for your sister.  This person would be responsible for keeping track of the money and making sure all was taken care of.  If there is no listing for a base service unit, contact any mental health organization in the area and they can direct you to the proper place.
                      Joyce A. Anthony

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I can answer questions dealing with bipolar disorder in a parent, yourself or your child. I can give suggestions and insight into what can be expected of many medications for bipolar disorder. My most extensive knowledge is in children with bipolar disorder. Here I can give advice on dealing with daily events, schools, medication and professionals.

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I am the daughter of a bipolar/schizophrenic parent, am bipolar myself and am raising a bipolar child. I have a background in Psychology from Gannon University, have run several parenting classes for those parenting bipolar children and have had extensive experience with medications, the school system, homeschooling a special needs child, dealing with counselors, doctors and other professionals in the mental health field. I write for a bipolar website, with the focus on educating the child with bipolar disorder on his/her illness.

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