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Expert: Joyce A. Anthony - 9/1/2009


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Well last winter my mom was diagnosed with having a bipolar disorder. I am not sure which but she stopped taking her medication and it is going to affect me and my family again because of her behavior. What can I say to persuade her to start taking her medication again without her getting upset with me, like saying she doesn't need it. Please help. Thank you.

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Hello L:

Unfortunately, every person is different, so it is difficult to know what will make someone listen.  Try sitting down as a family and start by telling your mother that all of you love her and are concerned.  Then let her know what concerns you and why.  Maybe give some examples of certain behaviors and how they effect everyone.  Keep your voice soft and make sure she knows you speak from love.  If this doesn't work, try discussing this issue with her family doctor and see if the doctor can talk to her.

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I can answer questions dealing with bipolar disorder in a parent, yourself or your child. I can give suggestions and insight into what can be expected of many medications for bipolar disorder. My most extensive knowledge is in children with bipolar disorder. Here I can give advice on dealing with daily events, schools, medication and professionals.

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I am the daughter of a bipolar/schizophrenic parent, am bipolar myself and am raising a bipolar child. I have a background in Psychology from Gannon University, have run several parenting classes for those parenting bipolar children and have had extensive experience with medications, the school system, homeschooling a special needs child, dealing with counselors, doctors and other professionals in the mental health field. I write for a bipolar website, with the focus on educating the child with bipolar disorder on his/her illness.

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