Expert: Ivan Goldberg, M.D. - 5/15/2010

Question
My daughter gave birth about a year ago and both daughter and granddaughter lived with me until recently. My daughter has been is biopolar and also has a meth addiction. She was out of control and always calls me names and I decided I had enough and I pushed her shoulder stating do not talk to me that way and she punch me really hard on the arm. How can I get her help she is 23.

Answer
Hi Phyllis . . .

My definition of tragedy is, "Not being able to help someone you love." Your situation certainly meets this definition. If your daughter had hit you without you having touched her first, you might have called the police and have her arrested for assault. In some jurisdictions this would have lead to her being hospitalized in a metal hospital rather then being put in jail.

You should look for a chapter of NAMI that is close to you (http://www.nami.org/template.cfm?section=your_local_nami) and see if they can direct you to a lawyer who is familiar with mental health law. Such a lawyer may be able to help you start legal proceedings that will force your daughter into treatment.

I'm sorry I don't have more to suggest to you.

Best regards . . .

Ivan
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