Expert: Joyce A. Anthony - 7/25/2007

Question
QUESTION: A couple of days ago one of my best friends named Hannah, brought up that she thought she might be bipolar. I had never thought it possible but the more I thought about it, the more I thought she might. Very often Hannah has mood changes that can go from completely happy and like she described it "it hit me. and my body and heart started hurting it freaked me out" I know you would think some problem came up but I asked her and she said no problem had arisen. Also about 2 years ago she was really suicidal and I thought she was over that but she confirmed taht sometiems when she gets sad she feels suicidal and hopeless. Then sometiems she might just be normal and have the biggest boost of energy in the world. Sometimes she gets easily irritated and annoyed. I'm the only one she told and I really don't know what to tell her. PLease help.

ANSWER: Hi Nicolas:

The best thing you can do is let your friend know it doesn't change how you think/feel--and try to get her to see a psychiatrist for an actual diagnosis.  More than anything, she just needs to know you are still there for her.
         Joyce A. Anthony

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QUESTION: What if shes to stubborn to see a psychiatrist?

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Nicolas:

Unfortunately, you can't force her into it.  The best thing to do is stand by her, let her know she isn't alone and that you care enough to want her to be happy--and tell her you don't feel she can be completely happy unless she gets her moods in control.  Then, just be there and support her decision.
         Joyce A. Anthony