Expert: Diane Cheryl - 1/23/2009

Question
I am thinking of going on the pill.  My boyfriend and I use condoms but I am still scared sometimes especially when it comes close to my period. He hates it when he has to use it, but he knows im really scared and respects it.  I was just wondering that if I do go on the pill, does he still have to pull out or is he allowed to shoot in me just if incase things get 'out of control'?? And also if he should continue to use condoms?? Thanks.

Answer
Hello Shey,

There is no birth control method which is 100% able to protect you from pregnancy or an STD. I would advise you to practice abstinence at this time in your life. If you are feeling that you would not want to get pregnant, then the only way not to worry is to not risk sex.
Many people are choosing second virginity in their lives.  

I don't recommend any kind of hormonal birth control. I feel that it has side effects and risks.

Please email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com so we can discuss further.


Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl