Expert: Diane Cheryl - 1/7/2010

Question
hey..thanks for taking the time to read my question...well basically i just need some advise from someone that knows what their talking about..so i started to take birth control pill about 4 weeks ago however during these 4 weeks were crazy for me like i felt very low within myself ang extremally moody i even accused my partner of cheating which i dont get why because i dont think he cheats on me anyway but i kept starting arguements and things like that, my friend said something about it could be due to my birth control why i feel so low and moody i just thought i was a load of rubbish but could this possibly be true? as this was a new birth control for me, also ive now stopped taking birth control as i dont think hormal contraception is best but i just wanted to know is it "normal" to have a period like blead 2 days after stopping the pill even though i had a period 14days ago? and ive been in alot of disscomfort way more then i get with a normal period is this also normal? oh and ive had shooting like pains in my virgina sorry if to much detail its just i aint shore if this is ok or not. i am looking for a new type of contraception that dont pump hormons in my body or through the skin im only 18 and someone sudggested the contraceptive cap i know your not a doctor and all that but please may i ask what you would recommend..?? and with a cap do you always have to use spermicide? i have also exsperienced alot or irritationa nd soreness from some comdoms is the cap the same kind of material..???
I know there is quiet alot of question i do understand if you cant answer them all however it would be really much appreciated if you could advise me on as much as you can
Thanks alot
Jasmine xx

Answer
Hi Jasmine,

I just found your question in the question pool here on allexperts.com
That means that whoever you asked the question to, didn't or wasn't able to answer. So I found your question and will try to answer.

I'm so glad that you went off the hormonal birth control. How did you find out about the side effects and risks-was it from your own experience?

You really didn't say how old you are and how long you have been dating your boyfriend. I would advise you to consider abstinence so you won't worry about birth control methods right now. Also, you won't have to worry about STDs or pregnancy. Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com and we can talk more.

It's easier to talk on email so hope to hear from you soon. Put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl