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I just had my appointment with my OBGYN this morning, and I'm a bit stressed out now. For the majority of the last 10 years I've been on birth control pills. Most recently on Lo Loestrin. My doctor is concerned about my blood pressure (it's been up and down in the past, and was high again today). She is unwilling to write another script for me for any type of pill.

She gave me three options, and sent me home with the info for them, which I've looked over. In 2 weeks when I'm finished with my current pill pack I need to switch to one of these she says. The options are: Mirena, Depo-Provera. and the Depo-SubQ which she said is the Depo shot, but one you can give yourself.

I've loved being on both the Loestrin and the Lo Loestrin. Not only because it's been effective birth control, but because my periods are much more tolerable. When I'm not on the pill my periods are 8 or 9 days and extremely heavy, to the point I've had to have ultrasounds, and found out I had endometrial hyperplasia. I also was anemic from my heavy periods in the past,and had to take iron which killed my stomach. With the Lo Loestrin my periods are only a few hours of spotting and I absolutely love it.

So the main thing I'm wanting besides effective birth control is something that will make my periods tolerable, and this is why I'm upset about not being able to stay on the pill. After reading the information I see that all 3 options say they can lighten periods, but I'm fearful of the side effects. I'm already overweight and really struggle with my weight and I'm scared of weight gain with the Depo.

I'm also freaked out after reading the Mirena brochure, which talked about how if pregnancy does happen the Mirena can cause loss of the pregnancy or even loss of fertility, and it mentioned the possibility of it perforating the uterus and requiring surgery to remove. That scares me to death. I've already lost 3 pregnancies and don't want to live in fear of conceiving while on the IUD and having something tragic happen.

With the Depo, I'm scared of the weight gain and I'm also scared of it worsening my depression (which I've struggled severely with). I feel like my doctor is giving me poor options. I tried to tell her this, but she said she wasn't going to argue with me, and that these side effects weren't as bad as having a stroke.

Which birth control would you think would be best for my situation? Which would lighten periods the most, the Depo or the Mirena? Can you think of any other options besides the three my doctor recommended? I need to make a decision soon, because I need to switch to something else in 2 weeks and schedule the appointment and get insurance authorization prior to that. Thanks for your help.

Dear Bethany, You are wise to be concerned about these 3 methods of birth control. I would not recommend any one of these methods. I would urge you to find another birth control method. There is such a thing as natural methods. Here are 2 webpages to check out

I cannot take responsibility for anything on these websites but thought they may be helpful to you. If you could find a doctor who believes in natural methods, please search that out.
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I can answer questions about the various methods of birth control. I have done much research about side effects and risks of birth control methods. I can answer questions like "What would be the best method of birth control for me?" and "What are the advantages of birth control pills or condoms?" I have almost 25 years of experience volunteering with pregnancy resource centers. Please contact me at if you would like to know more information about your situation or if I am "Maxed OUT".


I have almost 25 years of experience in counseling women about birth control and family planning.

Illinois Valley Community College, Austin Community College, Travel Agent Degree and almost 25 years of counseling experience.
I have worked with Pregnancy Resource Centers for almost 25 years.

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