Question I'm 39 , he's 25, we dated for 1 year, then lived together for 2 years, he went into the service and when he got home, he told me he felt he was no longer curious about being bisexual. He wants to be friends and that he cares about me and would do anything for me. as I would for him. I accept and respect his feeling without prejudice. I knew going into this relationship anything can happen.
Now that he is back from the service he wants to move back in(he will have his own room) I said "yes" because i still care about him and don't want him to waste his money on rent.(he's been saving to buy a house for 4 years now) and he's a great help around the house.
What do I do with all the feelings and memories we have together ?
All of our friends that knew we were together, Have so many questions and now he's moving back in...
Do they make a Gay or Bisexual Pill? lol
When and if he wants to have sex ? (without the attachment of a relationship) Do I do Him for the fun and enjoyment of it?
I always enjoyed it as much as he did...
Thanks
Rich
Answer Sorry for the delay in responding. It may take a long time for your feelings towards him to fade. I suggest that you cherish the memories you have and move on. Having him living in your house will make it a lot harder for you to move on.
Your friends should mind their own business. It doesn't concern them what your relationship status with him is. Let em' gossip all they want.
I've not heard of a bi/gay pill but if I do I'll be sure to let you know !!
The sex issue could be complicated unless you are able to detach yourself emotionally from the experience. If you can then I don't see a reason why two people can't enjoy each others bodies as long as you are prepared to deal with the potential emotional fallout.
I wish you the best and please write back and let me know how you're doing.
