Expert: Guy Curious - 11/30/2010

Question
I am a40 yr. Old woman married 7yr. And i love women well at least the idea of meeting,falln n love with.n spendn d rest my life with that special lady. The problem is i afraid of rejection really...afraid and i dont think she would like me anyway what can i do?

Answer
The first step I would recommend is telling your husband about your desires and see what his response is.  If he is comfortable with the idea of you exploring your bisexuality then I say go for it.  Life is too short to sit back and wonder, "What if....."

Don't let your age hold you back, it's just a number.  If everyone shied away from relationships out of fear of rejection nobody would ever get together.  Some women will reject you, some will not.  It's the same for heterosexual relationships.  

I hope this helps and please write back and let me know how you're doing.