Bisexuality/bi-curious yet unsure

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Hi, I am a 17 old male with a "maybe I am bisexual" matter in the head that won't let me ease. I want to experiment yet no man interests me. Already touched my self "in the back" and found it enjoyable. Is it possibly to like the "touch in the back" without ever desiring a man, or will I feel attracted to one someday ? (and I hope to... funny and weird...)
I like womans, and many will surely dislike to hear "dominate me", that's why I would like to desire a man. Maybe I am just with some kind of fear?

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The anal region is loaded with nerves and is very sensitive to the touch.  A lot of guys enjoy being stimulated in this area but it doesn't mean they are bisexual or gay.  That's just an old stigma attached to having any interaction with the anus.  

At your age this is the time in your life when you are curious about your sexuality.  My advice, if you are curious about something then try it.  This way you won't be wondering later on in life if you've missed out on something.  You never know, you might just find a whole new area of your sexuality that you never knew existed !

Have fun, be safe, and remember, variety is the spice of life.

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