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| What happened? | 11/20/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Erica, I've had very little dating experience. My first real relationship lasted two years and ended ...
A: We all want to feel needed and cared about and find that soul mate. Your gut instinct was screaming ...
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| had a breakup & donno how to deal with | 11/18/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Im guy 23 my x-girlfriend is 20 we had split-up 5 months ago after a 6 months relation, she is a ...
A: By no means are you a bloody criminal. You can't be in a relationship with someone that you are not ...
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| confusion | 11/18/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Well I've been dating this guy for 3 months now and as time passes things seem to be falling apart.I ...
A: Well, first you have to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend or this new guy. If you really ...
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| I want to break up with him... | 11/18/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a half. he is a bit indifferent. sometimes he ...
A: Bad move on your part. Instead of focusing so much on what he is doing and whether or not he is ...
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| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
A: If you really want to know whether or not he wants to be with you ~ these random meeting up's isn't ...
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| Break up | 11/16/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My ex broke up with me on the 24th October after over 3 years and a child together. The reason for ...
A: Please get yourself a support group... Reach out to old friends, make new ones, and your family. ...
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| Breakup closure | 11/16/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: It's been about four months since the actual breakup. I had been feeling like I wanted something ...
A: Well, he could be trying to open a line of communication, but I agree with you and think that since ...
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| 5 months break off | 11/16/2009 | Julie |
Q: im 20 years old girl i recently had a break off with a guy 5 months ago after a 6 months relation. ...
A: This guy sounds very shallow. I would ignore him, just because HE doesn't find you attractive to ...
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| Boyfriend moving away | 11/15/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and things have been great! We practically live ...
A: Is there any way you can make plans to join him in the US or for him to return to London?? ...
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| e-mail breakup | 11/13/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My girlfriend 46 and I 33 broke up last week. Neither of us have ever been married or have kids. ...
A: As sad as this situation sounds ~ it appears that she has made a decision and is sticking with it. ...
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| PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR OF MY EX. | 11/10/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Finally after many months, my ex has moved out as well as his (rude and nasty) 16 yo son. The bad ...
A: I am brutally honest and maybe I did misunderstand your question. If you know for a fact that he is ...
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| What Should I Do !? | 11/10/2009 | Julie |
Q: Well i have been with this boy for about 6 years. In the beginning of the relationship i had a best ...
A: Yes, this situation is unhealthy..you need to leave and give him time to himself and either he ...
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| Broke up/Reconcillation | 11/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both in our late 40's and have been married before (not to each other). We ...
A: I'm sorry to break the news, but he had every right to talk to and confide in whomever he chose to ~ ...
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| had a breakup & donno how to deal with | 11/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Im guy 23 my x-girlfriend is 20 we had split-up 5 months ago after a 6 months relation, she is a ...
A: I think it is important that you soul search and figure out why this is bothering you so much. Yes, ...
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| Break up | 11/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for two years on and off. He just broke up with me today, he ...
A: I know you are hurting and want answers and want to feel better, but HE is not going to make you ...
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| Ignore or be straight | 11/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I am trying to get over someone. We both really liked each other. But in the end, it didn't work ...
A: Sudha, Very easily ~ don't respond at all. If he wants to be more than friends he will stop short ...
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| PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR OF MY EX. | 11/8/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Finally after many months, my ex has moved out as well as his (rude and nasty) 16 yo son. The bad ...
A: There is obviously a small part of you that is still "in" this crazy situation because if you really ...
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| Any chance with her? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site for me. We went on ...
A: Well to be honest with you I totally agree with your psychologist. I would let her know how you feel ...
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| is my ex string me along? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: How are you? Hope you enjoy your holiday. I'm the one who ask you questions about "join ex facebook" ...
A: If I were you I wouldn't question him. The bottom line is, if he really had intentions of working ...
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| Liked this guy, he said he just wanted to be friends, now after 3 months he wants me as more... | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: im in a really difficult position and i just dont know what to do. About 8 months ago i broke up ...
A: Ok... so what you are questioning is whether or not you should feel upset because John decides HE ...
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| is my ex string me along or he confused himself? | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: currently my ex bf and me back together after 10 months broke up (he was the one broke up with me) ...
A: I think you should stop everything all together..... You have nothing to lose, but everything to ...
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| can't get over him. | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: About 2 years ago, I dated a man for 10 months. He broke up with me, but we remained friends and we ...
A: If it were me... I would delete him off of my Facebook and really work on getting over him.... He ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Your welcome. You are doing the right thing. Another thing I want to point out is don't ask him at ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Well there could be a number of reasons why he doesn't feel like he loves you anymore, he could be ...
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| Dealing with breakup, broken heart and having to work with her | 11/6/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I need some advice! Have been dating a girl from work since March 08 and broke up a few days ago, I ...
A: Many women end up going back to their husbands or ex-husbands because they want to keep the family ...
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| is my ex string me along or he confused himself? | 11/6/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: currently my ex bf and me back together after 10 months broke up (he was the one broke up with me) ...
A: Focus on your final exams and jump for joy that you didn't have sex with him. This is a clear ~ ...
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| is my ex string me along? | 11/6/2009 | Julie |
Q: How are you? Hope you enjoy your holiday. I'm the one who ask you questions about "join ex facebook" ...
A: sorry to hear nothings changed. I think that he got what he wanted from you, got the reassurance you ...
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| what does he really want with me? | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My ex and I dated for 1 1/2 years. things were good between us and then he started withdrawing from ...
A: Obviously you were aware that he wasn't happy in the relationship and let him go to figure things ...
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| Break up | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for two years on and off. He just broke up with me today, he ...
A: This is what you have said to your boyfriend without actually saying it: You have said... do ...
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| 6 year breakup | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: .. I'm 26 years old. I'm struggling with my first breakup. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. ...
A: I know the pain you are feeling ~ actually... I understand all of the emotions that you are feeling, ...
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| ex-boyfriend is confusing me | 11/3/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me last September. Actually, I initially broke up with him ...
A: He is stringing you along. If he wanted to be with you ~ he would be. He wouldn't be selfish and ...
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| Do i still love her, I feel lost? | 11/2/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and living together for 2. She is lovely, supportive, ...
A: After all of this time it is interesting that you are questioning the relationship now... Have you ...
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| Heartbroken after 6 years, Girlfriend broke up with me for no reason. | 11/1/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: OK here it goes. My girfriend broke up with me recently after 6 years of love, when we met she was ...
A: You need to stop blaming yourself ~ you couldn't help it that you got sick and I can relate to that. ...
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| Follow Up Quest re: Time and Space | 10/31/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My former girlfriend asked for time and space to think and heal, etc. I haven't talked with her in ...
A: Absolutely NOT!!! Do not go..... you are finding reasons and justifications as to why you should... ...
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| I just want him back... | 10/31/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend recently just broke up w/ me we were together for 2 1/2 yrs we had a daughter together ...
A: Get your act together and start acting like a responsible mother and woman. Then, he may want to be ...
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| Stepping Back or a nice Break up | 10/30/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and love each other very much. However, lately ...
A: There is probably no way that you could possibly be friends right now without it killing you inside. ...
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| He is at it again | 10/30/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I know he is totally wrong for me because if he really wanted to be with me he would. Problem ...
A: Make it so that you don't know he is contacting you. Block him from your phone, email, facebook, ...
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| Text Msg . . . Led to Break Up | 10/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated over one year and are best friends. I am 10 years ...
A: If you know there was no cheating (emotional or physical) then you really had no place to ask any ...
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| Best friends, boyfriends and breakups. | 10/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My best friend (let's call her J) was going out with a guy (Let's call him N). After over six months ...
A: I'm sorry, but I feel like I am taking my law school admission test again with this email with all ...
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| I'm lost... | 10/27/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months, well actually, he broke up with me. His reasoning ...
A: Your emotions may be clouding your judgement. He isn't telling you that he wants to make this work ...
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