| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Liked this guy, he said he just wanted to be friends, now after 3 months he wants me as more... | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: im in a really difficult position and i just dont know what to do. About 8 months ago i broke up ...
A: Ok... so what you are questioning is whether or not you should feel upset because John decides HE ...
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| is my ex string me along or he confused himself? | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: currently my ex bf and me back together after 10 months broke up (he was the one broke up with me) ...
A: I think you should stop everything all together..... You have nothing to lose, but everything to ...
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| can't get over him. | 11/7/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: About 2 years ago, I dated a man for 10 months. He broke up with me, but we remained friends and we ...
A: If it were me... I would delete him off of my Facebook and really work on getting over him.... He ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Your welcome. You are doing the right thing. Another thing I want to point out is don't ask him at ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 | Julie |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Well there could be a number of reasons why he doesn't feel like he loves you anymore, he could be ...
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| Dealing with breakup, broken heart and having to work with her | 11/6/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I need some advice! Have been dating a girl from work since March 08 and broke up a few days ago, I ...
A: Many women end up going back to their husbands or ex-husbands because they want to keep the family ...
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| is my ex string me along or he confused himself? | 11/6/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: currently my ex bf and me back together after 10 months broke up (he was the one broke up with me) ...
A: Focus on your final exams and jump for joy that you didn't have sex with him. This is a clear ~ ...
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| is my ex string me along? | 11/6/2009 | Julie |
Q: How are you? Hope you enjoy your holiday. I'm the one who ask you questions about "join ex facebook" ...
A: sorry to hear nothings changed. I think that he got what he wanted from you, got the reassurance you ...
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| what does he really want with me? | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My ex and I dated for 1 1/2 years. things were good between us and then he started withdrawing from ...
A: Obviously you were aware that he wasn't happy in the relationship and let him go to figure things ...
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| Break up | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for two years on and off. He just broke up with me today, he ...
A: This is what you have said to your boyfriend without actually saying it: You have said... do ...
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| 6 year breakup | 11/5/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: .. I'm 26 years old. I'm struggling with my first breakup. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. ...
A: I know the pain you are feeling ~ actually... I understand all of the emotions that you are feeling, ...
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| ex-boyfriend is confusing me | 11/3/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me last September. Actually, I initially broke up with him ...
A: He is stringing you along. If he wanted to be with you ~ he would be. He wouldn't be selfish and ...
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| Do i still love her, I feel lost? | 11/2/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and living together for 2. She is lovely, supportive, ...
A: After all of this time it is interesting that you are questioning the relationship now... Have you ...
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| Heartbroken after 6 years, Girlfriend broke up with me for no reason. | 11/1/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: OK here it goes. My girfriend broke up with me recently after 6 years of love, when we met she was ...
A: You need to stop blaming yourself ~ you couldn't help it that you got sick and I can relate to that. ...
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| Follow Up Quest re: Time and Space | 10/31/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My former girlfriend asked for time and space to think and heal, etc. I haven't talked with her in ...
A: Absolutely NOT!!! Do not go..... you are finding reasons and justifications as to why you should... ...
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| I just want him back... | 10/31/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend recently just broke up w/ me we were together for 2 1/2 yrs we had a daughter together ...
A: Get your act together and start acting like a responsible mother and woman. Then, he may want to be ...
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| Stepping Back or a nice Break up | 10/30/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and love each other very much. However, lately ...
A: There is probably no way that you could possibly be friends right now without it killing you inside. ...
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| He is at it again | 10/30/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I know he is totally wrong for me because if he really wanted to be with me he would. Problem ...
A: Make it so that you don't know he is contacting you. Block him from your phone, email, facebook, ...
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| Text Msg . . . Led to Break Up | 10/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated over one year and are best friends. I am 10 years ...
A: If you know there was no cheating (emotional or physical) then you really had no place to ask any ...
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| Best friends, boyfriends and breakups. | 10/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My best friend (let's call her J) was going out with a guy (Let's call him N). After over six months ...
A: I'm sorry, but I feel like I am taking my law school admission test again with this email with all ...
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| I'm lost... | 10/27/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months, well actually, he broke up with me. His reasoning ...
A: Your emotions may be clouding your judgement. He isn't telling you that he wants to make this work ...
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| Break-up | 10/27/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Ok. So I was with my boyfriend for 7 months. About the 6th month I was feeling like I didnt want to ...
A: First of all I definitely wouldn't continue to speak to him or see him on these weekly "date" ...
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| I am pretty sure I am headed towards a break up. | 10/27/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: In a nutshell, my boyfriend and I have had a tumultuous 2 years together. When we first met, he was ...
A: Nicole, At 30 ~ how much more time would you like to waste with a dead end relationship?? You are ...
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| foreign student relationship | 10/26/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I've been dating a girl for a month or so and now she wants to break up with me because she's afraid ...
A: There isn't anything you can do to make someone be or stay with you. You can tell her how you feel ...
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| I dumped him but I really didnt want to. | 10/24/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I had a big row with my boyfriend of 7months and i guess just to get a reaction or to try to get him ...
A: I would definitely work on myself before I even attempted to get back together with him. He may ...
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| Moving on | 10/23/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I won't go into tons of detail. I am 23 and my college boyfriend broke up with me in summer of 2008. ...
A: I would definitely concentrate on yourself. There is nothing wrong with dating someone new as long ...
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| fed up!!! | 10/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: IT HAS BEEN 6 MONTHS SINCE MY 2 YR BOYfriend and i have broken up, we spent time away from echother, ...
A: You tell yourself that you are a great, loving, caring, sweet, and FABULOUS person who deserves to ...
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| Stay or go? | 10/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been dating a man fir 10 months. We both have children, I am divorced & he a widow(2yrs) Our ...
A: I think the first thing that is important here is that if you are not short of conversation why ...
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| Reconciliation | 10/20/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend and I broke up right after Christmas and have been broken up since..so about 10 months. ...
A: If you continue to sleep with him on and off ~ I highly doubt that you will get back together and ...
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| Confused | 10/20/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I hope you can help me with this. My ex and I dated for 5 months. He's a great guy. Two months into ...
A: I definitely think it is too soon to be friends... way too soon. Learn from this and your previous ...
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| Its killing me! | 10/19/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Im in the military, 2 years this oct. While I was in tech school I met a perfect stranger who I ...
A: You have to cut him loose and move on especially since you have a new boyfriend. He obviously ...
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| WHEN SOMEONE LOVES YOU TOO MUCH | 10/19/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: ! I AM SO STRESSED OUT..I MET A GREAT GUY, BUT VERY JEALOUS, SIX MONTHS AGO. THREE MONTHS INTO THE ...
A: Wow... you are a great woman.... You can't stay in a relationship just because he is so wonderful to ...
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| 8 1/2 months pregnant and abandoned | 10/16/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, we got pregnant and decided together we were going to keep the ...
A: Regardless of how or when he did it ~ it hurts terribly and I am sorry. You need to make sure you ...
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| Having his Cake and Eating it Too... | 10/15/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months, and we lived together for the whole 6 months. When we ...
A: Please don't let him have his cake and eat it too.... I wish us women would stop "fixing" these ...
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| so sad | 10/14/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: my two and a half year relationship has ended again but this time its for good. we have broken up ...
A: What you are feeling is completely normal.... you are ending a relatively long relationship. ...
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| I don't know whether to break up with him or not. | 10/14/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I am nearly 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend for a year. During our relationship he has ...
A: You will definitely be able to cope at your school without him. Yes, this is why you are feeling ...
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| Is it over with my ex? | 10/13/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My ex boyfriend and I dated for about 2 years (I am 24 and he is 26)..we lived together for the last ...
A: Not quite sure what happened, but something did. Maybe he just decided that you were not the woman ...
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| Ex wants me back | 10/13/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Erica, My ex and I were together for four years before we broke up. I always, even after we broke ...
A: They always suggest counseling when someone enters into law school because a lot of people have a ...
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| reconsiliation | 10/12/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: i broke up w/my bf in about 6 or 7 months ago, knowing that it wouldnt be fair for him me being in ...
A: Since you already expressed how you feel ~ let the ball be in his court. If he wants to be with you ...
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| meeee | 10/11/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: we still text and still cam she no longer wants to marry i verbally abused her she say sshe always ...
A: I congratulate you on getting help for yourself. Continue to work on you and become the best person ...
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