| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Dazed and Confused | 10/10/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 5 years now. Im 28 years old she is 27. ...
A: It is normal to fall into a "comfortable" pattern when you live with someone and have been with ...
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| After 7 Years.. | 10/10/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: i have been together with s for 7 years now..and we recently broke up ..officially about a month ...
A: .. Honestly, there is no magical time frame as to when you are going to feel "normal" again. You ...
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| end of relationship | 10/9/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I was involved with a lovely young woman for almost two years. I am 28 she is twenty seven. Our ...
A: Anthony, It could have been a plan, or it could have just been she thought she wanted to be with ...
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| I need to know | 10/9/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I am not sure how to feel. I am 28, she is 27. We were involved for one year and a half. She was ...
A: If she has made a decision to go back with her ex then there is nothing you can do right now to ...
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| After 7 Years.. | 10/9/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: i have been together with s for 7 years now..and we recently broke up ..officially about a month ...
A: Regardless of whether or not he is interested in someone else or someone else accepts unacceptable ...
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| *** More than Friends??? | 10/8/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I just recently broke up with my girlfriend, it was a sour end and she had just been with someone ...
A: They are hard.... I would probably place a little distance while she is going through this break up ...
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| end of relationship | 10/7/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I was involved with a lovely young woman for almost two years. I am 28 she is twenty seven. Our ...
A: Unfortunately, I do think this woman used you. You did absolutely nothing wrong here, except to ...
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| Not coping too well | 10/7/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I am seven weeks into a break up and still barely able to function properly. I have been left ...
A: Everything you are feeling is normal.... However, I would suggest that you seek some professional ...
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| Breakup | 10/7/2008 | Dr. 8Bit |
Q: My boyfriend of almost 3 yrs just left me,he said he was too busy for me with taking 4 classes in ...
A: I'd have to say from the information you gave, this breakup is about the relationship and not his ...
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| thinking about my ex with someone else | 10/6/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend brokeup with me over a month ago. I think he left me for someone else since I have ...
A: I would shut the door in his face... What you would be accepting is a man who left you for someone ...
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| It's been 4 years... | 10/5/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 4 years ago and lately the idea that we're no longer together hurts ...
A: I am sorry that you are going through such a rough time. It is normal to miss someone that was ...
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| relationship | 10/4/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now.we get along good and he never fights with me.i ...
A: Sonia, You don't get along with your boyfriend well if he is hitting you. He does what he wants to ...
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| *** More than Friends??? | 10/4/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I just recently broke up with my girlfriend, it was a sour end and she had just been with someone ...
A: I would definitely approach this situation as slow as possible. She is obviously not ready for ...
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| I need to know | 10/3/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I am not sure how to feel. I am 28, she is 27. We were involved for one year and a half. She was ...
A: It is never justified to hit anyone. There are serious consequences when you do. Obviously you ...
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| What does he want? | 9/30/2008 | Dr. 8Bit |
Q: 8Bit, Saturday night was my old school's homecoming. (I moved after my freshmen year & now I'm a ...
A: First off, take my word for it, the message you sent is far from long in comparisons to other ...
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| Giving him a second chance | 9/25/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: My boyfriend (age 22) and I (age 19) were together for four years, and we broke up about 4 months ...
A: I think you are doing the right thing by staying on your own. I can understand why you're finding ...
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| Boyfriend moved out and I have not heard from him | 9/24/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: We lived together for 3 months, and I truly enjoyed his company. He was attractive, funny, helpful ...
A: Wow... my guess would be he is probably exploring a different and new situation possibly with ...
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| Confused what to do?? | 9/24/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I had been with my girlfriend for 4 years, we have split for a duration of 3 months during this ...
A: It is normal to miss someone after a breakup, but that isn't a good enough reason to get back ...
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| Do i wait? i am so confused. | 9/24/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. We both live in the same city and never ...
A: Definitely give her space immediately. She is obviously confused and needs to sort out whatever it ...
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| Break up of a long distance relationship | 9/21/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I will try and give as much detail as I can. I am a 36 year old Irish man,5foot 11inches, slim and ...
A: Actually, I don't think its crazy at all. I truly believe that if 2 people are meant to be ...
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| How do I just let him go? | 9/20/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Alright, so my ex and I were together for a total of 13 months officially, when we were both 17. We ...
A: You just have to really try and accept it. You have to tell yourself that you did the best that you ...
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| Moving on after break ups | 9/20/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I broke up with my ex gf 9 months ago and now I heard that she is coming to my friend's 23rd bday in ...
A: You could just be cordial and polite. Say "Hello", but avoid any long and lengthy conversation ...
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| Love Triangle - What happens after she chooses | 9/20/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I got involved with a woman who ended a two year relationship after meeting me. She still loved him ...
A: I think it would be best to move on from this relationship. This is a woman who either is not ...
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| Miserable | 9/18/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I had been with my ex girlfriend for almost two years. She helped me get out of money situations and ...
A: You have to try and accept that the relationship is over and start moving on with your life. ...
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| please help | 9/18/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: where to begin. i have been dating my girlfriend for abut 2 years now, and there are a lot of things ...
A: It is time that you took a stand for yourself and made the decision as to whether or not you want ...
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| Relationship Breakup | 9/17/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I met a man online and we spent a lot of time together, as well as talking on the phone for about 3 ...
A: I think that three weeks of no contact means he has moved on at this point. Contacting him now, ...
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| Break up of a long distance relationship | 9/17/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I will try and give as much detail as I can. I am a 36 year old Irish man,5foot 11inches, slim and ...
A: You are not the one who is throwing the relationship away - she is. I had to put myself in your ...
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| is it time to let go | 9/15/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been dating this women for over a year now and things have been up and down the whole time. ...
A: I got your question out of the question pool which is why noone has responded sooner. You really ...
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| She wants to take a break | 9/14/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now, though we were never officially ...
A: Unfortunately, I think the only thing you can do here is give her time, knowing full well that she ...
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| Post-Breakup | 9/13/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I recently broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because of many good reasons. I realized in the end ...
A: If you can keep the stuff to just cherish the memories then by all means do so. But, if the ...
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| breakups | 9/10/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: How do I know if my boyfriend wants to break up with me?
A: You could just ask him.... Typically... a man's patterns will change... and then start to change ...
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| Will he come back? | 9/9/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now, and his ex started getting into the picture ...
A: I apologize, but I just got your question today... it was in the question pool.... I would ...
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| child support and broke trucker daddy | 9/9/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been engaged to my children's father for 3 1/2 years. He has been apathetic about everything ...
A: It is his responsibility to be able to provide for his children. Therefore, this is what I would ...
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| Hard to accept a breakup and move on | 9/7/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: My boyfriend (45) and me (38) have been in a long-distance relationship for 4.5 years (him in ...
A: I know that this is incredibly painful, but the last thing that you want to do is give him the power ...
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| how do i get over someone i love so so so much | 9/4/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: i am a guy met this girl one year ago, at the very beginning, we were just friends and she told me ...
A: You are no good to anyone especially yourself if you don't take care of your basic needs such as ...
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| confusion | 9/4/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: so i met this guy last october, almost a year ago now, and we dated for probably 2 months. however, ...
A: I wouldn't stress too much over the situation unless he moves back into town. That is when you will ...
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| Need Advice | 9/2/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: am not sure where to start. I was dating this guy for on and on 2 years. We didn't have the best ...
A: I apologize, but I got your question out of the question pool so today is the first day that I saw ...
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| Ending a 7 year relationship | 9/2/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: I have been with my partner for 7 years. Due to circumstances, we moved in together straight away. ...
A: How does your sister feel about this? This may be one area you don't want to get caught up in. I ...
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| Ending a 7 year relationship | 9/2/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I have been with my partner for 7 years. Due to circumstances, we moved in together straight away. ...
A: I think it probably is time for you to move on, and I don't think it will be as much of a surprise ...
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| Longterm Breakup | 9/1/2008 | ***ERICA*** |
Q: Erica Ok here's my story,about a month ago my girlfriend of 10yrs broke up after she caught me ...
A: It's not possible to seperate the 2... Realistically, it is going to cause you tremendous pain and ...
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