How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/Recovery after getting dumped

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Hi Erica, I had been dumped a few months ago by someone whom I loved and trusted a lot..... It just hurt so much to get my heart broken..... I definitely needed some advice on coping with it, but was just SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO messed up/overwhelmed to put my story into words....But then one day I was going thru the answers u had given other women who had been in my similar situation ie got dumped.......
I learned a lot from ur answers, it helped me to cope with my heart break and regain my self confidence which had been soooo badly wounded by that break up....
That heartbreak almost killed me.....I was shattered wen my childhood sweetheart ditched me and didnt take me back though I loved him more than anything.......

Now many months later, I have moved on and regained my old, happy self.....
Really, Erica, thanks a lot :-) !!!

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Hi Natesa... Thank you for the kind words and I am glad that you are doing better and rediscovering yourself... Breakups are difficult and test the core of our being.... Stay strong and if you ever need advice.... just shoot me an email.... Again... thank you and have a wonderful weekend.....   " Love like you have never been hurt "

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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