Expert: ***ERICA*** - 1/18/2008

Question
"my girlfriend and i dated for 6 months, and then she broke up with me, w/o explanation.

during those 6 months, we had regular sex.  she never complained, never asked for more, never asked for anything different, and always had an orgasm.

however, during these 6 months, neither of us ever performed oral sex on the other.  she was a pretty wild girl in life in general, but our sex life was just normal, nothing out of the ordinary.

the one thing she would tell me is that 'you never make noise during sex' and then would say 'we'll get it out of you one day'

do you think had she wanted more in the bedroom, maybe different kinds of sex, or if she had wanted me to do oral sex, she would have told me?
 
could this have had anything to do with her breaking up with me?

thanks"

Answer
A woman will tell her man what she wants done in the bedroom.  If things need to improve - she will tell you - no... I do not believe that she broke up with you for that reason alone.  I have yet to meet a woman who has broken up with a man for sexual reasons without discussing them first.