How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/well... its too late

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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/20/2008


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My last question never got answered but now its beside the point. My gf and I of 6 months finally broke up and she was my first real gf. I put my heart into it and i loved her because she was absolutly everything i wanted in every apsect. now we're trying to remain friends but i don't know if i can handle it. What do I do?

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Dear Mark,
It is extremely difficult to remain friends with someone soon after a breakup.  Usually you need to give the situation some time.  If the 2 of you were very close then eventually you will be friends, but this only happens after a good amount of time has passed and neither of the parties wants the other one back.  Good Luck and Warmest Wishes, Erica

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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