Expert: ***ERICA*** - 11/10/2008

Question
hi...a year back... i was friends with this guy through common friends. he just had a break up with his girlfriend. and i guess i was a shoulder to cry on and so we became good friends...and slowly we started liking each other, plus everyone kew about it...at first i was skeptical to get close to him...but after he assured me that he wont get back to his ex or that i wasn't a rebound...i was ok with the friendsship...but again there was no commitment from either side...after 2 months of our friendship and liking...on 14th feb... he tells me he's getting back to his ex-girlfirend... i was heart broken and didnt speak to him...but then he tried to talk to me thinking its all cool... he apologised many times but i didnt care...recently and issue happened with my mom which has left me to think that life is too short to get all angry n stuff wid ppl around...but the prob now is that he aint interested in talkin...and since we r in the same group it gets awkward when we r together...

how do i get him back...?

plz solve :)

Answer
Dear Reema,
Explain how you felt then and how you feel now and all you can do is take a risk and be honest with your feelings.  If he doesn't want to rekindle the friendship there really isn't anything you can do but accept it.  However, you will feel a lot better knowing that you tried.... Warmest Wishes and Good Luck, ERica