How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/Break-Up

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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 3/19/2008


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"Hi there,ive been into a relationship since 2 years i love my girlfriend alot.Recently our relationship hit the rock when i asked out one of her friends when we fought..she accepted me after that said would give me a chance.But few days back she suddenly told me that she likes someone else when i was trying hard to win her trust by doing everything she liked. Its exam time for me i just cant concentrate and get over this.Im still in touch with her.What do I DO TO GET OVER THIS I LOVE HER TOO MUCH? 07/18/1983 MALE"

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Hi Syed,
Asking out the friend... not such a good idea... that shows some disrespect and lack of empathy.  My suggestion to you would be to ask to meet with her and lay all of your feelings on the table and accept whatever she has to say.  She may be responsive/she may not.  But, whatever the outcome is - both of you need to be respectful to each other because you never know what can happen down the road.  Good Luck and I hope this helps...

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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