Expert: ***ERICA*** - 3/22/2008

Question
Well me and my bf have been going out for 10 months now it seemed like there is something happening, Its a slight long distance Relationship i really like this guy. But recently i have found a new guy who yes i have kissed and i really like this guy and when im around him i just feel weightless. I now  in a position of where to go. When i see both guys separately i feel over the moon. I am trying to break up with my current bf but i find its hard not to hurt his feelings because hes a slightly sensitive guy i don't know what to do and how to break up with him in a slightly nicer way  way.

Answer
Hi Larissa,
Unfortunately, there is no nice way to break up because someone always gets hurt even if both of you know that it is time to move on... its part of "relationships."  But, what you can do is be honest, straight to the point, and not keep things "murky."  Then, you can take some time and figure out what it is that you really want.  Maybe some time for yourself to live your FABULOUS life would be perfect!!  I never advise anyone to go from one situation into another because sometimes you transfer feelings..... without even knowing that you are doing it.... I hope this helps and good luck.. Warmest Wishes...