How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/My girl friend ditched me

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On March 8th my Girl frnd of over 3 years broke up with me by sayin the problem is tht both of us are living in 2 countries at the moment due to some personal reasons..she sayz she is extra horny these dayz threfore she needs someone to fulfil her sexual desires.Im really broken inside even though i didnt  let her knew it over the phone when we broke up.how could i deal with this bitter break up? i really loved her nd this happend to be my first serious relationship...??

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Well Dosh, it is a shame that a woman would leave someone because of a lack of sexual fulfillment.  Don't get me wrong- sex is important in a relationship, but when distance is causing the problem some understanding needs to occur..... so, my guess is there may be more to the story.  Anyway.... you deal with it by accepting what happened and moving on.... alot easier said than done, but you really are left with no choice at this point.  Have some fun with your family and friends..... stay busy and see what happens

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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