Expert: ***ERICA*** - 3/10/2008

Question
okay, so me and my bf have been dating for almost year. [11 months and 2 weeks] we broke up the week after valentines.
the problem started when i asked him on a date for valentines but its going to be the day after since were both busy on valentines. so the day came, our FIRST DATE in 11 months!! so then we decided to meet at 12:30 at the park so i got there at 12:30 [exact time]and i live an hour and a half away from that place and he lives 5-10mins away from it. so i waited for him for an hour when its -20degrees outside!! i got really ticked off and i msged him [i was being sarcastic] ; after that we havent talk for a couple of days and then the week after that came, my friend told me that he wanted to end the relationship because he couldnt take it anymore but he didnt have any reason so i just broke up with him instead and try to let go of him even though its really hard because he was the only one that i took seriously

Answer
Nikki,
I am sorry, but I may be confused... .how is this your first date in 11 months and you state that you have been dagin for almost a year.... I don't understand and he stood you up?  First of all... never drive anywhere to meet a man.... allow him to drive and pick you up because you are worth it.... NEVER accept not seeing someone on an important day without him making you feel like the queen of the world if he can't be there with you... NEVER settle for such disrespect and lack of concern..... he wouldn't even be allowed to be an acquaintance of mine... YOU DESERVE to be treated better.... leave this situation with some self respect and dignity and let him go... actually run away from him.....  please.... Good Luck and I hope this helps..