Expert: ***ERICA*** - 4/3/2008

Question
OK, I will make this short.

I have two Ex's that were friends before but now when I entered their life, the situation was reversed, in that, they fought over me. I still have a little communication with EX #1, but I dont have feelings for her and we broke up 8 months ago and for EX #2 we dont have any communication since we broke up 3 months ago. My Ex #1 is having a dinner party in two weeks and she invited her 4 original friends including my EX #2. So, she said I will be the surprise guess. My question is, do I have to attend the party? And also, I still have feelings for EX #2. What I want to happen is text my EX #2 and tell her if I could walk with her and talk to her or maybe possible to reconnect, but i dont know if it will work cuz she hates me so bad when we had a physical contact with each other. What do you think I should do?

Answer
Josh,
I would probably not go to the dinner party as it would make for a very uncomfortable situation that you don't need to subject yourself to.  If you want to make contact with Ex #2 - you could email her or write her a letter telling her exactly how you feel and leave a door open for her to contact you if she is still interested in speaking with you.  This will do 2 things... it will either restart communication between you and her or it will give you closure to move on with your life.  Good Luck and I hope this helps... Warmest Wishes,
Erica