How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/dealing with a break up!

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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 4/3/2008


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when my ex and i broke up it was on valentines day and i just can't get over him i have been talking about him for ever. how do i stop texting him and get over this! it hurt so bad.

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Megan,
You won't begin to heal until you accept that the relationship is over.  If you don't have the will power to stop texting him - shut your phone off and give it to someone who you trust for a period of time.  I know it hurts really bad - all breakups do and the only thing that helps us get through it is time, but you have to stay away and stop initiating contact or you won't begin to feel better.  You will get over him eventually but only when you accept that the relationship is over.  I wish you the very best and good luck because this is hard.  Warmest Wishes, Erica

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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