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i no this is really bad of me to ask but me and my girlfriend and i have bean having some problems and i trying to finish it but i don't no how to do it without hurting her
Hi Ross,
There is no way to break up with someone without them feeling hurt. But, you can do the right thing (which is what it appears that you are trying to do) by being honest, firm, and not going back and forth.... Definitely don't give any false hope because that will prevent her from moving on. By doing all of the right things.... she is naturally going to hurt, but you will be giving her closure and she will have to respect and understand your decision and then start to heal... Good Luck and I hope this helped. Warmest Wishes, Erica
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***ERICA***
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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman.
Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time.
Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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