Expert: ***ERICA*** - 8/26/2008

Question
My Ex always keeps doing the same thing. She will break up with me, then sometimes after a few hours or a few weeks beg of me to come back to her in tears and everything!!!

I have always kept going back to her. Like it seems like as soon as she see's me independant of her and happy she seems to want me back???? and she will be really affectionate and loving and full of promises to get back with me and she will be nice for a time then she will end it again. The last time I said 'OK is there any chance ever you will change your mind?' and she said 'No, never' now shes in tears begging for me back AGAIN!! its been 2 months...

I cant belive it but I feel really bad seeing her in tears????

Whats going on here???

Neil

Answer
Hi Neil,
It appears that she doesn't know what she wants but is keeping you around by offering you mere scraps and you definitely deserve better than that.  I suggest that you tell her to take 2 more months to herself and if she still wants to get back together then - maybe you will consider it.  Take a stand or she will continue to ride this vicious cycle.... Good Luck and Warmest Wishes, Erica