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About ***ERICA***
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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/16/2009
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I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, we got pregnant and decided together we were going to keep the baby and become a family. I am now 8 1/2 months pregnant and he is leaving me cause he wants something different. He is already moving on to another girl, who is aware of my pregnancy and how little time I have left. It has been 2 days since our break up and I am alone. I feel as though him moving on so soon is the reason I cant start to get over him. Not to mention I am carrying a part of him in my body. I dont know what to do or how to feel.
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Dear Teara,
Regardless of how or when he did it ~ it hurts terribly and I am sorry. You need to make sure you eat, sleep, and take care of YOU!!! You are getting ready to have the best gift given to us women ~ a baby.... You can be a great mom without him.... Change your focal point... don't let it be him or his new relationship.... Focus on you and your child... Right now you kind of have to not worry about how you feel or what to do regarding this situation because you are ready to give birth... You have no control over what he does or what kind of father he is going to be... Protect yourself... Once you have the baby... go to the courts and ask for financial support and set up a visitation schedule.... Then, it is all on him..... Congratulations on becoming a mother and God Bless..... You are going to be ok...
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