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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/31/2009


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Hi Erica!  My former girlfriend asked for time and space to think and heal, etc.  I haven't talked with her in over 2 weeks.  I received an email from her inviting me (and others) to a special  event she's hosting next week. The event is for a great cause! I'm just confusexd as to why she would invite me to the event, if she wants time apart.  I have always supported her anyway that I could and am sure my presence will mean a lot to her.  Doubtful we will have time to chat since so many ppl will be around but am still confused about going.  Thoughts, suggestions?  Thx!

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Dear EXC,
Absolutely NOT!!! Do not go..... you are finding reasons and justifications as to why you should... but, this is a big NO-NO!!!!! and DON'T RESPOND to the invite...... Give her the time and space ~ she doesn't get to pick what is convenient for her..... That's playing with your heart and mind.... Take back the power and feel good about you.... NOOOOOOOOOOO

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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