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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/8/2009
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I was with my ex boyfriend for 2 and half years we have a 17mth old child together, he ended things on 10th aug as he said he wasnt happy and just lost feelings for me the fall out 1st started after i found out he had kissed a girl when drunk and confronted him about it. my ex from the day we ended started dating this older women for 6 weeks and now hes dating a 18yr old and he likes informing mutual friends about his dates knowing he tells me, i dont get why hes acting like this and not respecting the fact i still love him and hes not even seeing his child, i dont no how i can get him to talk to me to discuss our child, he hasnt seen him in 4 weeks and says im the unreasonable one not letting him have access but he is the one that cancels day outs with our child to go gambling or seeing women. i live with his mum to and cant see a way to move on in the situation i am in as i cant afford to move out at the moment?. sorry for the long message.
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Dear Jenna,
Please find a way to move out of that house because that is going to get you nowhere. There is a judicial system to help you get support and to arrange visitation rights for him to see the baby without you having to have any contact with him. I know that this is a very difficult time for you, but the more you try to get in touch with him ~ the more pain you are going to cause yourself. Do this for you and the baby. You deserve to be happy and he isn't doing that for you. You are subjecting yourself to torture.... Tell your mutual friends that you don't want to know what he is doing that you are too busy with the baby and your own life. He is going to do what he wants to do no matter what.... If he is choosing not to be a good father ~ that is going to fall on him.... you just be the best mother you can be and the best person you can be!!!! Success is the best revenge..... Good Luck ~ I do know how difficult this is...
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