Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/1/2009

Question
So i have a boyfriend who i love we have been together for 2years long distance but before i met him i was interested with this other guy from school back when i was in high school. Im out of school now but me an this other guy never dated because when one of us was single the other was not but i really liked him i even stayed the night over his house a couple of times back in high school. But since ive moved an got a boyfriend he is still in the back of my mind an everytime i call him which is once in a blue i start to cry an can barely speak an i miss him so much why is that if im already in love with someone else????

Answer
Dear Letasha,
If you are in love with someone else than why are you calling him?? Is it because you guys are still friends... if that is the case than that is understandable....But, if it is because you still have feelings for him then it really isn't fair to either party and I am certain you wouldn't want it done to you.  I would do some soul searching as for the reason why you want to continue to keep in contact with this guy.  Then, I would evaluate the current relationship you are in and see if you really are in love with this man.  Good Luck.... your soul searching will give you the answers you need.