About***ERICA*** Expertise A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
Experience BBA
Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams
Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman.
Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time.
Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
Question Hi. So I was with this guy for a little more than 2 years. He broke up with me about a month ago. Said he needed a break. This is the second time he needs one. He says he wants to want me like he used to. I lost my job about 2 months ago a didn't start looking for a new one till a month ago. He told me after we broke up that it bugged him. I didn't really need money. I'm good when it comes to saving. I'm still in school. College. He asked me to move in with him a few times but we live about 50 miles away and that would be a long commute to school. I love him. And miss him. We've been broken up for a little more than a month and it seems to be getting harder. I can't stop my self from missing him. And can't stop from thinking about him. I only think of the good can't seem to remember the bad. When I was with him it was the other way. Only thought of the bad. I need advice on the relationship or the lack of and want to know how to stop being so obsessed. Thank you.
Answer Dear Adriana,
Everything you are feeling is normal... change and breakups are very hard. Remember this though: at a difficult time ~ he ran away... Is that the type of man you want to be with??? If he wants to move in together ~ he will move mountains and move closer to where you are... Stop making concessions for him and allow him to do whatever it takes to be with you... Anything short of that ~ be glad you broke up and aren't going to waste any time.... It is always harder before it gets easier.... Take this time ~ concentrate on school, friends, your job, and your goals.... Time is the only thing that helps us ~ that and taking care of us.... Good Luck...
