How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/meeee

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we still text and still cam she no longer wants to marry i verbally abused her she say sshe always love me and that ye sits ok to keep loving her an dthat i am her best friend i am going to couseling and trying to find the word i love her very much i hurt her for 3 years i never paye dattention to her it was always about howard i hung up on her signed out on her i was never there for her i wanna marry her and spend the rest of my life with her

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Dear Howard,
I congratulate you on getting help for yourself.  Continue to work on you and become the best person that you can be for yourself.  Give her some space and time.  Try to have no contact with her so that you can do this for you ~ in the event the 2 of you never get back together.  Unfortunately, sometimes we don't know what we have until its gone..... The counselor will let you know when they believe you are ready to express all of your feelings and emotions to her.... Good Luck

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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