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About ***ERICA***
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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman.
Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time.
Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 10/30/2009
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I know he is totally wrong for me because if he really wanted to be with me he would.
Problem is...this guy still gets to me.
Years ago he said he was head over heels for me. But I told him at the time I could only be friends with him because I was dating someone else.
Well that relationship didn't work out. I started to like the other guy. But he couldn't believe me. He accused me of toying with his feelings. But at the same time he would say the most romantic things to me. It would get to me. He kept pulling this stunt where he would invite me out and then cancel on me.
In the end, I decided I was done. The guy who accused me of toying with his feelings kept toying with mine.
In the end, I cut contact with him.
But now, he keeps contacting me. I am so tempted... But I know I will fall into the trap again. This is a guy with serious trust issues. His wife left him years ago. He has trust issues with other women. But he doesn't seem to see how he plays with other women's feelings.
I am trying to do the right thing by avoiding him... But it's hard.
It's like having that fattening midnight snack that I will be paying for later.
How do I make sure I don't fall into the trap again.
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Dear Sudha,
Make it so that you don't know he is contacting you. Block him from your phone, email, facebook, myspace... whatever way you can...... This way you can keep some fond memories of him, but don't have the temptation to go back.... Stand by your decision... it sounds like you gave him enough chances... His issues are his own problem..... Good Luck
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