Expert: Julie - 11/16/2009

Question
Hi
im 20 years old girl i recently had a break off with a guy 5 months ago after a 6 months relation. he is a such a nice guy i ever met in my life, i really love him, but he discarded me becoz i cant attrac him physically & sexually he started attracted girls other than me.
he explained me the situation & we split up, now we dont talk. i know he still loves me but according to him beauty & attractiveness is more important & due to this he cant continue to love me.
ive loosed my confidence since, i cant concentrate on my work. i love him so much plz tell me what to do?

Answer
This guy sounds very shallow. I would ignore him, just because HE doesn't find you attractive to him, doesn't mean others won't, its just his opinion and for him to even mention that to you is cruel.
Its hard but your better off without him, seriously, you don't need someone in your life who will be shallow like that.
Just ignore him, don't talk to him and move on, its hard and its going to take some time but its the only thing you can really do. If he truly loved you, then he'd be with you no matter what. He's just making excuses.