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About ***ERICA***
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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams
Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman.
Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time.
Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 11/5/2009
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for two years on and off. He just broke up with me today, he said that he does not want to spend the rest of his life with me but yet he loves me. During our relationship, he had cheated on me with 16 different women more than once with each one but I stayed in the relationship because I live him unconditionally. My question is, what do I do from here, how can we rekindle what we had? He does not like my attitude, but he was the one that cheated, lied, deceitful, what woman would not be angry with this? I found out I was pregnant and he wanted to work things out with me but now there is a possibility of me losing the baby and he said he wants to start over and be friends. He said we were better off friends than we were lovers.
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Dear Emily,
This is what you have said to your boyfriend without actually saying it: You have said... do whatever you want... hurt me.. cheat on me.. lie to me.... disrespect me.... etc... AND I WILL STAY with you no matter what??? My question to you is... WHY??? Why would you want to be with someone like that (I won't even call him a man?) Even if you were pregnant and had the baby ~ he wouldn't stay ~ your life would be full of him having affairs and disrespecting you.. basically a life of misery. Take back some of your power and start feeling and believing that you are worth more than this... Seriously.... I wish you would care about yourself just a little to realize that you are worth more than this.... HE IS NEVER going to change.... Don't be his friend... change your number... block him from everything and get him out of your life and get busy creating one of your own. I feel bad for you because you are trying to force something that is NEVER going to be.... Once you start to feel good about yourself you aren't going to even want him.... Trust me... Good Luck
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