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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 11/7/2009
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Hello and thank you for helping me with my problem. About 2 years ago, I dated a man for 10 months. He broke up with me, but we remained friends and we are friends on Facebook. About 2 weeks ago, we were talking on Facebook and he kept putting smiley faces :) on the end of his replies to me. This helped me to believe he was into me ( along with other signs) so I sent him a message telling him how much I want him back in my life and that we should go out again. He didn't respond. He currently has a girlfriend and he flirts with pretty girls. In the past he has hurt me deeply but I can't seem to get over him. I hate him and I love him at the same time! Please tell me what to do! thanks
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Dear Alli,
If it were me... I would delete him off of my Facebook and really work on getting over him.... He doesn't want to be with you. What you shared with him was two years ago and he has a girlfriend now. Even when you sent him an email asking him to go out again ~ he didn't respond which means he doesn't want to be with you. He obviously enjoys the attention of many women, but isn't emotionally involved with any of them except his girlfriend. He may play with your feelings again if you allow him to, but this would be putting you on a dead end road because he has had a significant amount of time to have initiated getting back together with you if he wanted to. I would definitely not stay friends at this time and delete him off your facebook... Good Luck
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