How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/Dealing with break up

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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 12/18/2009


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I called off my wedding a few months back. I always feel very heavy at heart and even though I try to engage myself in activities, I lose the urge. My performance has been affected. Also I do not feel like talking to new people. I just talk to my very close friends and sometimes feel like keeping to myself. Will this result in my going into a major depression in the long run?

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Dear Anindita,
Yes, it can result in you becoming very depressed if you aren't already.  Since you have lost the urge in doing things that you previously enjoyed this is a sign that you are already falling into a depression.  Have you considered talking to a professional?? It may do you some good because calling off a wedding is a very difficult thing to do ~ it's a major loss even when it is for the best.  I would consider seeing someone professionally to help you get through this.  Good Luck

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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