Expert: ***ERICA*** - 12/12/2009

Question
Hi Im LeAnn I have dated this guy for 2 years and we broke up in June..I have very strong feelings for him and its hard to deal with. Now that we broke up, I have been working on me and do really good, until he texts me! I talked to him and told him that it was hard for me to talk to him and everything and he said i know im sorry. Then it got to the point where it was to tough to talk to him he just kept texting me and asking how i was doing. I then later on told him that maybe we shouldnt talk anymore, I said i cant hold on to nothing and he said said ok then I deleted his number and he still continues to text..He always asks how im doing and said i know u dont want me to talk to you but i was just wondering how you were doing..I dont understand this at all..then today he text me and asked me to give him a recipie for something i always made him..I was having a really good day then my stomache just dropped, and got a sick feeling. He said thanks so much leann and then i told him that made me sick to my stomache just giving you that, now you can make that someday for your lady, and he said i promise i wont ever make it for a lady, then he said id have to get one first. I guess what Im trying to ask is why is he still texting me and trying to hold on..I did everything i thought i could do, i deleted his numer told him maybe we shouldnt talk anymore its to hard on me and he still does it..Im so confused what does he want from me..It makes me sad when I hear from him, cuz i try so hard to move on and then even a text from him brings me down..can you please help me!

Answer
Dear Leann,
You need to block him from everything!!! Contact the phone company and do whatever you have to in order for him not to get in touch with you.  He just wants to stay in contact with you and have his ego stroked... You deserve better.... Keep doing the right things to make your life better and delete him from your life..... Good Luck