Expert: ***ERICA*** - 12/22/2009

Question
Ok, a couple months back me and this guy started going out. He told me he loved me and i knew i was in love.
But then, one day at school, he pulled me(not physically just asked me to talk) out of our group of friends and started saying that, he was in the middle of moving, and starting college during the school year and he didn't think he could handle a girlfriend at the time.
But then a few weeks later he was someone new...and every time i saw them together i felt like i was about to die. She dumped him not to long ago, but he thinks he wasn't good enough for her. Now he follows her around like a lost puppy. How, what am i to do, i still love him, but he is over me.  

Answer
Dear Jaycie,
It is time to start healing.  He doesn't deserve you anyway.  If he left you to pursue someone else and she broke up with him then that just proves that Karma is a bitch.  Let him follow her around like a puppy ~ shame on him.... You are feeling rejected which is normal, but you need to get busy creating your own life without him in it.... He may even try to contact you to get his ego stroked, but know that you deserve soooooo much better than that... You deserve to be treated the right way..... the way he treated you is not the way that someone treats you who cares about you.... Good Luck