Expert: Julie - 3/29/2009

Question
I have not been with my boyfriend that long but when we first got together everything was great we saw each other often and talked it could not have been better  well we started having problems i cheated on him with my ex when we first got together and i told him and he said he forgave me and then months later things get bad the past 2 weeks i have not seen him or anything he says he dont have the gas but last but i find out he had cheated on me with one of my friends and with his ex also i am so hurt he will not talk to me about it just says all i do is gripe about things i dont know what to do

Answer
Sounds like he's being a little vengeful. I would just let this go, you were at least honest with him and this is how he treats you. Of course cheating is wrong but he didn't have to handle it this way, sounds like he's 'punishing' you.
I'd just let him go and move on, you don't need someone like that in your life.
I wouldn't call or text or email him, the only thing that your gonna end up doing is making him angry and pushing him away even more.

good luck

Julie