Expert: Julie - 3/26/2009

Question
my ex and i dated for about 3 years but it was and on and off again relationship. we broke because of he say she type of stuff which was not the truth and cause us to have alot of problem Am in very much in love her but she stop seeing that She am a good man that respects and would do anything for her but she don't want to be with be because of I work at a fast food joint drop out of college for a year and she is always listening to her parent telling her that I no good A scrub .I am out here trying to do better trying to be a better man but she stop believing in me and found somebody else a week ago who i think he will or is doing her wrong but she can't see that i am the better man for her. how can i get her back?  she said i will always have a place in her heart because I was her first am 23 and she is 20 we met when we were 20 and 17 her friends and family tells her she need to get more out of life party and go out more what going on? I miss her I love her i try to get over her  for months now But I can't please help me?

Answer
Well if she found someone new and is happy theres not much you can do to convince her you are better for her. Even if you are trying to show you are the better man. Just continue being the best person you can be and if its meant to be, then she will come back. But you can't make someone want to be with you. The more you try to get someone back, the more you push them away..trust me.

Good luck, Julie