How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/Can I get back with my ex?

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Expert: Julie - 4/15/2009


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I was dating this amazing girl for 2 months. Then, we had our first big fight and it resulted in her dumping me. She hated me for the longest time. It has been a month now and we are back to being friends and talking a lot. I really love her. Does this mean there is a chance we can get back together? How do I try to get her back without pushing her further away?

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If you don't want to push her away then don't pressure her into getting back together. Its possible she just wants to remain friends and nothing more. You can always ask her if she sees you guys ever getting back together and see what she says, if she says no or not right now, then leave it at that. By pursuing her or pressuring her you can expect to push her away 100%.

good luck!

Julie

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