Expert: Julie - 4/5/2009

Question
As you said i just have to keep no contact and move on, if he want me he'll let me know or contact me again, but I'm just worry that when the time goes by he may forget about me totally? have you ever seen people reconcile after such a long time separated? We have separated for over three months already, I tried not to contact him and was cool but deep down inside i miss him a lot. Did i make a mistake by telling him not contact me anymore? as he told me he wanted us to be friend, but i disagreed with his idea and said that we could just either be in the relationship or left each other alone so we could move on.

Answer
No I think its best not to be friends til your healed and if he really loves you he won't forget about you. Lots of people have reconciled even after one year, or even two! So anything is possible.
It all depends how comfortable you are with keeping in touch, if you want to keep in touch and be his friend then let him know. But if its too painful, then I wouldn't..cause it keeps you from moving on.
but no, I broke up with someone and we didn't talk for six months and I still thought about him all the time..it just made it easier thats all.
Its up to you though!! whatever feels comfortable.