How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/I want my best friend back

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I had a friend no best friend.Then d relation changed 2 love.But at d end of our skul days she felt tat by changing d title of friendship 2 love v did a gr8 mistake and left me.But i no she still loves me and i also no tat she wont come bak 2 me as my lover.i wat her bak not as lover but as my best friend.Now even tho she is my neighbour it has been 3year tat v met last time or even saw her.I cant imagin how i spent all these day without her friendship.
There only 1 ting in my mind I WANT HER BACK.
Wat should i do.
Should i ring her or should i go and meet her.
PLSSSSSSSS HELP ME
ITS REALLY SERIOUS I AM GETTING MAD WITHOUT HER FRIENDSHIP.

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Have you spoken to her and told her how you feel? Let her know that alls you want is her friendship (and leave it up to her by saying, whenever she is ready) cause if you pressure her, you might push her away.
So start small, start with a text, or an email or message or call her up and ask how she's been and go from there.

Good luck

Julie

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I can answer questions about break ups, and how to move on..I've been through a few of them myself and have learned what to do and what not to do in order to heal, move on, or try to get someone back. No guarantees as each individual is different but I can do my best to help!!

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I am a good listener and have helped friends get through break ups, I also have gone through a few myself and know how hard it is..if you just need to vent or need advice, feel free to ask

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