Expert: Julie - 5/17/2009

Question
ok, I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy that I've been with for a year and two months now. but, since we saw each other two months ago he seems much different. he acts distant, he tells me I'm the only one and we talk through text on his free time(when he's off work). he ignores me sometimes over the phone, he'll be watching a show or playing a game and we wont really talk. once in a while he'll be really sweet and loving but this is once or twice a week. we have an ok time most of the time but i have a hard time with the distance, though he says he loves me too much for it to matter. i do get suspicious a lot when he gets on the phone once in a while and says nothing about it, but when i ask him about it he just tells me it's a friend and not to worry. am i doing something wrong? am i paranoid? or is it just normal because of the distance?

Answer
Long distance relationships are really hard and when he doesn't act consistently then its hard not to wonder if theres something else going on that you don't know about.
You aren't doing anything wrong at all, and without anymore evidence you can't really be too suspicious about whats going on with him.
Just keep doing what your doing but don't question or be too suspicious with him unless theres something to really question otherwise you'll push him away.

Good luck

Julie