About Michael Freeman Expertise How to break-up
How to break-up with your girlfriend
How to break-up with your boyfriend
How to deal with a break-up
How to break-up with compassion and kindness
How to leave a codependent relationship
How to deal with a needy partner
How to deal with a demanding partner
How to deal with emotional and psychological abuse
Experience You might call me a "break-up artist."
I've studied psychology and relationships for over 10 years. I have experience counseling men through difficult relationships, and I'm exceptionally knowledgable about how to approach issues of separation and breaking up.
In other words, I help people deal with unhappy relationships.
I have written an ebook on leaving unhealthy relationships titled "A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy Relationships, available on Amazon.com and at: www.LeavingHer.com
Education/Credentials B.A. in the Liberal Arts
M.A. in the social sciences
Question Hi michael, I came 2 u b/c ur a man & I need a man opinion. its been a 1yr & 16days sense my ex & I departed. we live 2gether 4 2 1/2 yrs. been knowin him 4 8yrs but it wuz always off & on. I wuz about 2 marry him he wuz da one & still is the one. the only problem in dis sisuation wuz I wuz being unfaithful & it got me NOWHERE but alone. I've given him sum time alone like 6mon 2 his self I hav called him & express me self 2 him & I no he felt my pain but he tld me if he can just trust me he will take me bac. den what makes matters worst he move n da apartment complex right across the street! so I can't help but look & c his car r I often c him while im walkin 2 my car. What am I 2 do ? I f*** up badd I miss him love him & all of dis over my childish ways I've learned so how do I get hi back r @ least talkin 2 me ? ya think he has moved on ?
Answer It's good that you're feeling regret over what you've done, but it's his right to choose not to be with you. It takes courage and self-respect to leave someone who cheats, so you should probably acknowledge his decision and tell him that you're here for him if he changes his mind. I can't tell you if he'll ever come back to you or learn to trust you again. After 6 months, it is very likely that he's moved on.
It sounds like you've learned a lot from this, and I'm sure if you're a faithful partner in the future, you'll find the happiness you seek. Good luck!
