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I can give you my best advice on any subject about dating, breaking up with someone, or break ups. I always try and give my best effort when giving people my advice.

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How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups - Heartbroken


Expert: Patrick - 6/29/2009

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Last Sunday I broke up with my boyfriend of on year when I came over his house and he sitting down with a lady and his son at the house. I asked who it was and said just a friend and gave me know answers. So I left in a rage went home and the next day he sent me an e-mail saying I was never there for him i disregarded his feeling and so on. I was like how come you just didn't come to me and talk about it he was like I did talk about it but you laughed it off like it was a joke. He never came to me an talked about it he would always say you are late for everything and so one but I never thought that would break us up. Over the last couple days I have been acting like an insane women completely of out character, I stopped by his house the next day and he was pulling up with the same chick in the car. I went crazy I went off on him through a bottle at his window etc..just acting a crazy nut. Oh yeah come to find out I pregnant so I think that had a lot to do with it. Anyway he wont even give me a chance it like he had no feeling for me at all. How can you just lay in the bed with me on Saturday tell me U love me and then on Sunday you say "we were having problems in our relationship I wasn't happy" I've been so upset calling him texting him 100 times a day I'm so emotional I don't know what to do. I against abortion but I cant even think of carrying his child and he's treating me like this. Please tell me did I push him away by not spending enough time with him? On the other hand if he loved me wouldn't he have tried to make it work. Please give me some advise I'm heartbroken and I'm dying knowing that he has moved on so quickly. What should I do?

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Well think about it Alicia you don't even know that hes going out with this women it could really be one of his friends. Talk to him about it CALMLY don't throw anything or go crazy even if your emotional because that will make him angrier. Talk to him about it but DEFINITELY apologize for what you've done even if he doesn't apologize for what hes done.

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