Expert: Julie - 6/15/2009

Question
So I'm in my first year of high school, and I went out with this guy for a few months. He broke up with me last week and told me that he just wanted to be friends. Well I still like him and I really want him back. I don't want it to be too obvious. In fact, I want him to think that I got over him. I want him to want me back. His friend told me that part of the reason he broke up with me is because he thinks that I'm a drama queen and that I make a big deal out of everything. How do I show him I'm not, and that I'm the same person I was when he asked me out? We haven't really talked much since we broke up. This is the last week of school and pretty much I want to know how I can make him want me back and make him know that I'm not a drama queen. Any advice?

Answer
Well trying to talk to him and convince him won't help, people like to see the change for themselves. Just try hanging out with him as a friend and try to act sweet, and nice and don't bring up any drama whatsoever..if your not talking then try to be around him and show him your happy self if at all possible. Its really hard to show someone you've changed when your not really talking though but thats the best I can offer.

Good luck

Julie