AboutJulie Expertise I can answer questions about break ups, and how to move on..I've been through a few of them myself and have learned what to do and what not to do in order to heal, move on, or try to get someone back. No guarantees as each individual is different but I can do my best to help!!
Experience I am a good listener and have helped friends get through break ups, I also have gone through a few myself and know how hard it is..if you just need to vent or need advice, feel free to ask
Question QUESTION: i was in a releationship for about 2.5yrs we were very happy and had lot of plans for our future but later on our releationship become very bad we started fighting and abusing each other and again we use to make up things between us but later on feb-09 she had been out of country on a businnes trip when she was there we were fine till 20th feb after that a small fight between us made us to break up she did find a guy over there and he is her coleague she started liking him and she left me and she is with him now but they only talk and both or in diff cities she came back to india on march i met her she did tel me that she found a guy and she wants me to be a friend but i love her a lot need her a lot in my life i did ask her to forgive me but she says she cant come back to me but later we did try to meet and we spent some time together when ever she was there with me she use to hug me and i use to still feel thta she is mine still but i one she did tel me that she should have given me a last chance ans she releasied i did tel her you can come back any time illbe waiting but she says she cant now...and for almost a month we stopped meeting and talking but later she did cal me and asked me how are you and so on..when she was there in my life i took a loan for her and i pay the entire loan till today she did cal me and said that she will give me some money but i did tel her that i dont want but she called and said i will give you money and wants to meet me and talk about some debths to be paid off but but i once i did ask her that do you how much i love you and miss you she told yes i know thats all but when ever she calls me i can feel that her voice she sounds low and i feel she wants to meet me her birthday is on 26th june should i wish her or no i am confused does she loves me or still has feelings for me or cares for me as friend or she only taking to me because i had taken a loan for her i am totally confucsed but i love her and want her back...please help
ANSWER: I am sure she cares about you, its hard to tell what her intentions are though.
Maybe you just need to ask her what it is she wants. Tell her you are confused and that you are fine with just being friends. I am sure you do want her back but thats up to her, and if she says she just wants to be friends, don't push it, or you will push her away, trust me. You don't want to do that.
good luck
Julie
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QUESTION: hi i need her back i love her lot i know she is in love with a guy but he is not here he is in a different city
i know she has a little bit of care and love for me i need her back can help me in this
Answer Well the only thing you can do is tell her you love her and are willing to try again and make her happy. The rest is really up to her, you can't make someone come back if they don't want. Even suggest you start off slow for now so she doesn't feel pressured,but thats all you can do is let her know how you feel..and if there were issues before, tell her you are willing to work on them.
