Expert: Julie - 6/23/2009

Question
I have been dating a girl for about a month, and things were going very well. She told me she loved me in her sleep, which i heard. I had already fallen for her. I sent a text message the other night "in my sleep and unaware" saying "you totally blew me off" we have not spoken since. I tried explaining, and she said she would call me later through a text message. I have not heard from her except for her telling me not to text her anymore.. She left me hanging with weekend plans we had set. Should I move on? Continue trying to contact her and explain? I can't eat, sleep, or concentrate at work. Was what I did so horrible to justify her not even taking five minutes to talk to me? I did send her multiple text messages and phone calls for the life of me not understanding why i was being ignored.  She claims I was so great, wonderful, amazing, and perfect, but she couldn't talk to me about it. It just doesn't make sense. you opinion/advice is greatly appreciated. THANK YOU!


Answer
Well whatever is troubling her was enough for her to push you away, even if you don't think it was that bad. Don't text, or call or anything..thats the worst thing you can do, it'll push her away.
You already tried and got nothing back so now its for the best to leave it alone..let her come to you with an explaination when she's ready, if she ever does.

Until then, as hard as it is, its best to move on.
Give her some space and perhaps she will come around and at the very least, give an explanation.

Good luck

Julie