About Patrick Expertise I can give you my best advice on any subject about dating, breaking up with someone, or break ups. I always try and give my best effort when giving people my advice.
Experience Ive dealt with my fair share of break ups, and dating patches (good and bad) and I love to bestow my knowledge on the subject to those who dont know what to do.
Question "I have been dating a girl for about a month, and things were going very well. She told me she loved me in her sleep, which i heard. I had already fallen for her. I sent a text message the other night "in my sleep and unaware" saying "you totally blew me off" we have not spoken since. I tried explaining, and she said she would call me later through a text message. I have not heard from her except for her telling me not to text her anymore.. She left me hanging with weekend plans we had set. Should I move on? Continue trying to contact her and explain? I can't eat, sleep, or concentrate at work. Was what I did so horrible to justify her not even taking five minutes to talk to me? I did send her multiple text messages and phone calls for the life of me not understanding why i was being ignored. She claims I was so great, wonderful, amazing, and perfect, but she couldn't talk to me about it. It just doesn't make sense. you opinion/advice is greatly appreciated. THANK YOU!"
Answer Hey Mike,
My thoughts are maybe she took the message offensively but I cant really say. But she wont talk to you so that seems like it could be one theory. But I would also try just letting things blow over. I know you cant eat, sleep, concentrate but try. This is good practice. SHOULD you ever break up with her then you'll already be prepared, but I doubt this to be the case since you BOTH seem to really be into each other. So id just leave it alone and see if she comes too you, she might be one of the girls who take advantage of you if they know they have you in their hands, and the only way to stop those kind of girls is to act like your not bothered by the situation at all.
