How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/Breakup

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Expert: Julie - 8/14/2009


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Hi pls i nid 2 ask a question dat has boderd me 4 a lng time nw.i'v bin datin my bf 4 2yrs nw bt we seem 2 hv a problem.he hits me alot like more dan 4times n uses abusive wrds on me wn he's angry bt stil says he luvs me.i knw i luv him so much bt he is hurtin me alot n its getin 2 me.pls help me even dou i cnt go in2 details

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Well you don't need to go into details. What you have told me, was enough. LEAVE HIM!
He is abusive!! You don't need to be with someone who hits you and is abusive to you!
thats not love! He doesn't love you, not at all. He has too many problems to know what love is.
Please leave him, as this is dangerous and could even get worse.

Julie

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I can answer questions about break ups, and how to move on..I've been through a few of them myself and have learned what to do and what not to do in order to heal, move on, or try to get someone back. No guarantees as each individual is different but I can do my best to help!!

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I am a good listener and have helped friends get through break ups, I also have gone through a few myself and know how hard it is..if you just need to vent or need advice, feel free to ask

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