Expert: Julie - 8/6/2009

Question
OK, I'm 25 and ended a relationship about 5 months ago while i was in my final year of Uni. That relationship lasted for 6 years. I then fell for a girl(26)in my class and ended up kinda seeing her. she also ended a relationship with her boyfriend of 7 years 5 months ago to and we just clicked. me ex girlfriend found out and deleted her friendship on facebook and then my new girl found out the same day that her ex is seeing someone new and that freaked her out.
she feels guilty about everything that's going on and last night it came to ahead and she said she needs time to sort out her life.
For the past 5 months I've given her space and talked allot about us. I thought things were going well and now I'm like WTF, my head is all over the place cause I'm crazy about her, I'm giving her time but i don't want end up waiting for noting. like i've never felt like this before. Am i going to fast or am i stupid??

what am i to do????

Answer
You need to continue giving her space. If you pressure her, you risk pushing her away and losing her for good. She probably wasn't over her ex and even if she felt like she was getting over him, finding out he's seeing someone else probably brought it all back to her and upset her.

Its up to you if you feel like waiting, maybe give yourself a time limit as to how long your willing to wait for.
If she gets over her ex seeing someone else and then decides she wants to start things up with you again, she'll let you know. But in the meantime give her space and don't put your life on hold for her.

Good luck

Julie